I wish that I could be like the cool kids, ‘cause all the cool kids they seem to fit in.
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Cool Kids by Echosmith
The kids that are too cool for school become just as popular adults.
Family unit Echosmith echoes the feelings of adolescent angst. Popular teens seem to have it all. Even at a high school reunion, we’re anxious to see if the prom queen or football captain is still perfect (or we secretly want them not to be). Is coolness short-lived or does it carry over into adulthood?What does cool look like? What is that thing? That Je ne sais quoi . For the purposes of this post, cool equates to popular. In her book, The Geeks Shall Inherit the Earth, Alexandra Robbins explains that popularity is composed of three elements: visibility, recognizability and influence. Only 2 percent of the high school population falls into this category. Big cities and small towns are chock full of youth aspiring to achieve peer acceptance through pseudomature behavior—ranging from minor delinquency to precocious romantic involvement. The earlier kids engage in undesirable activities such as seeking attractive friends, breaking the rules, etc., the more likely they will have issues as adults. According to the journal, Child Development, Mean Girls (and guys) have a 40 percent higher chance of drug and alcohol problems.
By age 22, they are out of the in crowd and more likely part of the Oz-Prison-Break-Orange-is-the-New-Black crew.Tweet This
School popularity does not equal adult prosperity. Instead of being thirsty for adolescent adoration, focus on simply being yourself; it’s not the end of the world (even though our 14-year-old mind thinks so). It might actually be a harbinger of profitable businesses, amazing record sales, groundbreaking inventions or most importantly, becoming a productive member of society.
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